The End of Til Death Do Us Part
Hey everyone, and welcome to Way Walker! We are so excited to have you here, well primarily me, because my dog can't speak human and Dorian isn't ever going to be writing this haha! But really, I'm glad you are here! I started this blog as a new way of journaling and sharing my thoughts. I figure it's better on the internet then on paper where no one can read them. Let's hop on into this post...
Where to begin. This year has already been crazy busy for us! From going between Preston and Idaho Falls most weekends, because that's where our familes are. To going on random little road trips. Buying our first house. Getting our first puppy, she's a crazy one. Home improvement projects. Me starting a new job. And making it to ONE whole year of marriage!
When we first got married we decided that we would celebrate our anniversaries at places instead of with presents. That way we could remember which anniversary it was with the memories and experiences we had instead of with tangible things that lose their value over time. I mean memories last forever, and are so fun to reminisce back on. So it was a great plan! Kudos to Mr. Walker for having that idea!
Our first anniversary we decided to step it up a bit, and give each other the best memory ever of being married for all time and eternity, and we got sealed in the Logan Temple! We had worked so hard for that day. Attending temple prep classes was a weekly occurrence for us. As well as attending our church meetings more regularly. I even finished the entire Book of Mormon in 3 months as a challenge before we attended the temple.
A week before we got sealed we took our endowments out in the Idaho Falls temple with our close family. There were only 7 of us in total, and it was so special. Seeing everyone dressed in white, making important, sacred, and spiritual covenants with Heavenly Father, and we were doing the same thing for ourselves. Notice how I said for ourselves. When we got married last year I remember hearing ALL the comments, even if it wasn't in person straight to my face I still heard them. You can read more of my opinion here: http://modmegs.blogspot.com/2017/11/mormon-marriage-misconceptions.html. Honestly, my heart has changed so much in a year. I am able to love more. I am able to acknowledge the mistakes I make on the regular, and I'm able to come to Heavenly Father with a sincere heart and acknowledge that I'm not perfect and that I need and rely on HIS son Jesus Christ on the daily. A year ago, I was self absorbed. I'm a tidge more pure in heart and I acknowledge that I have work to do, and things that I need to fix. But I'm trying, and I'm using the right person to make my mistakes better. I try not to let things bother me much. Forgiveness really is the best policy. I've learned that you shouldn't worry what others think of you. What ultimately matters is that I am moving in the right direction that God wants me to go in. In his hands, I can't go wrong. In no way am I perfect, but I'm trying with a sincerity each day to be a little bit better. That's where the temple comes in. With my heart opened and willing to be more sincere with my Father in Heaven, I prepared myself for the temple for ME. So that I can make covenants with God. So that I can live worthily to be with my family for the eternities.
March 23, 2019 was the perfect day for us.We may have been running late, lost a wedding ring, and struggled in the beginning of the day but by the time we got to the temple every worry completely left us. We started off the day as til death do us part and ended the day as eachothers eternal companion. Let me tell you, it was the BEST feeling ever! We wished that we could've invited all of our loved ones, but due to room size we had to significantly reduce the numbers.
If you're having a hard time with other peoples opinions, FORGIVE. We are all on our own paths and there is no use in worrying about narrow minded opinions of you. Keep moving on. Keep your head up. Keep doing what you think makes you happy, and if it doesn't then change it. You are in charge of your own destiny. Vow today to make the choice to make yourself happy, and if that means letting go of other people's opinions, then DO IT!
You've totally got this. If you need a friend in your corner I'm always here and always willing to listen! If you're reading this, thanks for loving us. Even if we have differing opinions. We love you all, and are so glad to have you in our lives.
Love, love, love you!
Where to begin. This year has already been crazy busy for us! From going between Preston and Idaho Falls most weekends, because that's where our familes are. To going on random little road trips. Buying our first house. Getting our first puppy, she's a crazy one. Home improvement projects. Me starting a new job. And making it to ONE whole year of marriage!
When we first got married we decided that we would celebrate our anniversaries at places instead of with presents. That way we could remember which anniversary it was with the memories and experiences we had instead of with tangible things that lose their value over time. I mean memories last forever, and are so fun to reminisce back on. So it was a great plan! Kudos to Mr. Walker for having that idea!
Our first anniversary we decided to step it up a bit, and give each other the best memory ever of being married for all time and eternity, and we got sealed in the Logan Temple! We had worked so hard for that day. Attending temple prep classes was a weekly occurrence for us. As well as attending our church meetings more regularly. I even finished the entire Book of Mormon in 3 months as a challenge before we attended the temple.
A week before we got sealed we took our endowments out in the Idaho Falls temple with our close family. There were only 7 of us in total, and it was so special. Seeing everyone dressed in white, making important, sacred, and spiritual covenants with Heavenly Father, and we were doing the same thing for ourselves. Notice how I said for ourselves. When we got married last year I remember hearing ALL the comments, even if it wasn't in person straight to my face I still heard them. You can read more of my opinion here: http://modmegs.blogspot.com/2017/11/mormon-marriage-misconceptions.html. Honestly, my heart has changed so much in a year. I am able to love more. I am able to acknowledge the mistakes I make on the regular, and I'm able to come to Heavenly Father with a sincere heart and acknowledge that I'm not perfect and that I need and rely on HIS son Jesus Christ on the daily. A year ago, I was self absorbed. I'm a tidge more pure in heart and I acknowledge that I have work to do, and things that I need to fix. But I'm trying, and I'm using the right person to make my mistakes better. I try not to let things bother me much. Forgiveness really is the best policy. I've learned that you shouldn't worry what others think of you. What ultimately matters is that I am moving in the right direction that God wants me to go in. In his hands, I can't go wrong. In no way am I perfect, but I'm trying with a sincerity each day to be a little bit better. That's where the temple comes in. With my heart opened and willing to be more sincere with my Father in Heaven, I prepared myself for the temple for ME. So that I can make covenants with God. So that I can live worthily to be with my family for the eternities.
March 23, 2019 was the perfect day for us.We may have been running late, lost a wedding ring, and struggled in the beginning of the day but by the time we got to the temple every worry completely left us. We started off the day as til death do us part and ended the day as eachothers eternal companion. Let me tell you, it was the BEST feeling ever! We wished that we could've invited all of our loved ones, but due to room size we had to significantly reduce the numbers.
If you're having a hard time with other peoples opinions, FORGIVE. We are all on our own paths and there is no use in worrying about narrow minded opinions of you. Keep moving on. Keep your head up. Keep doing what you think makes you happy, and if it doesn't then change it. You are in charge of your own destiny. Vow today to make the choice to make yourself happy, and if that means letting go of other people's opinions, then DO IT!
You've totally got this. If you need a friend in your corner I'm always here and always willing to listen! If you're reading this, thanks for loving us. Even if we have differing opinions. We love you all, and are so glad to have you in our lives.
Love, love, love you!
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